You know the ones I’m talking about.  The low self esteem generated ‘Am I enough?’ inquiries.    The ONLY ‘get out of jail’ answer is to meet and greet these questions with a loving, supportive, affirming response.  For example: Am I fat?  “You look beautiful to me.”     Am I sexy?  “ALWAYS, TOTALLY!”    Am I balding?  “I love you just as you are.”

Consider these questions a call for love and give abundantly.