Let’s face it; everybody needs to hear and know that they are loved. Find a way to show your love to your partner every day. You don’t have to wait until ‘the day is done’ to awaken your ‘lover’ energy. You can ‘make love’ all day long.
“Your task is not to seek for Love, but merely to find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it” – Rumi What kind of self-imposed conditions do you place on yourself or others BEFORE you allow your love to flow freely? Our hearts are happiest when we relax the rules and just…
The more emotionally generous you are, the more love you feel. Accentuating the positive and acknowledging what is good in each other and in the relationship, has positive effects for both of you. When you let your partner know that you recognize his efforts, say thank you and express your gratitude, you help your partner…
For example, celebrate your 100th or 1000th day together since the baby was born. Celebrate your firsts…such as the first day you first made love, or the day you started living together, or the day you first said, “I love you.” The sky’s the limit. Celebrate your love and LOVING each other regularly.
Talking to each other is one the main tools we use to connect with each other. It’s how we extend ourselves and let our partner know who we are, what we need and how we feel. It’s important for the partnership to create an open passageway where each person can safely express themselves without fear…
Make small gestures, and make them often. The thoughtful little things we do for each other are like little dabs of superglue that bonds our partnership and fortifies our attachment.
In fact BODY LANGUAGE is just as important as spoken language when it comes to love relationships. Your partner’s words may say it’s OK, it’s settled, but their posture, bearing and expression may indicate disapproval or resentment. We not only need to say what we mean, we need to BE what we mean too.
\Experiment with textures and touch by stroking your partner’s body with assorted items, a silk scarf, a feather, a piece of fur. Touch each other without using your hands. You can touch with any part of your body, your hair, your feet, your arms.
KEEP IN TOUCH. Doctors and researchers have found that hugging is good for your health and well being. Touching and being touched helps us to thrive. It takes little time to open our arms to one another with huge benefits. What a great way to strengthen your ability to give and receive affection, so give…
Talk about your wonderful and joyous feelings and the sad and lonely ones too. Anger, happiness and surprise are all states of being. They are not right or wrong, justified or unjustified. They do occur and are very real to the person experiencing them. Disclosing yourself, sharing your feelings (without blame) immediately brings you to…
