Loving What Is
The more you love, accept, and invite ME as I am, the more I will open and reveal my true self.
A Call for Love
The anger, the criticism, the demands, we express are really cries to our lovers, calls to stir their hearts, to draw our mates back in. We are trying to reestablish a sense of safe connection. Unfortunately, fear breeds more fear. If you want love and closeness, BE the love you seek.
Most fights and distress in relationships can be boiled down to a few core issues.
“I don’t feel loved.” “I don’t feel connected.” “I don’t feel safe with you.” The longer we feel disconnected from each other, the more negative our interactions become. Underneath most distress calls are protests over our feeling emotionally disconnected from each other. The sooner you can address the true nature of your partner’s heart’s call,…